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The Bar Mitzvah Starter Set

Tefillin, tallis, yarmulke, siddur, pen — the pieces he'll keep for a lifetime, chosen by families who know.

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The bar mitzvah starter set isn't just a list — it's the beginning of a lifetime of davening.

Tefillin, tallis, yarmulke, siddur, and the small details (pen, tzitzis, kippah clip) that get used every single day. We've helped thousands of families put together this set. We know what matters and what doesn't.

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Siddur Kol Eliyahu - Sepharadi
Siddur Kol Eliyahu - Sepharadi Regular price$17.99
Zipper Siddur & Tehillim Eis Ratzon - Turquoise
Siddur Aliyos Eliyahu For Weekdays
Siddur Keter Shelomo With Linear English Translation - Sepharadi
Siddur & Tehillim Eis Ratzon "Lacey" Design - Silver
Siddur Es Ratzon: Sm Envelope Magnet Metallic - Gold
Siddur & Tehillim Eis Ratzon: Corner Style - Faux Leather
Siddur Yesod Hatfilah: Softcover - Large
Siddur & Tehillim Eis Ratzon "Lacey" Design - Turquoise
The Orot Sephardic Shabbat Siddur - Hebrew English: Sepharadi - Leather Edition
The Orot Sephardic Shabbat Siddur - Hebrew English: Sepharadi - Leather Edition
Siddur Er Pkt - Blue
Siddur Er Pkt - Blue Regular price$5.99
Siddur Yesod Hatfilah: Softcover - Small
Siddur for Shachris Eis Ratzon: Faux Leather - Silvery
Siddur Mesivta Shabbos V'Yom Tov
Siddur Mesivta L'Yemos HaChol
Siddur Mesivta L'Yemos HaChol Regular price$27.95
Siddur Kavanat Halev Hashalem - Sepharadi
Eis Ratzon Siddur: Faux Leather - Purse Style
Siddur Es Ratzon Sm Envelope Magnet - Silvery
Siddur Mekor HaBeracha
Siddur Mekor HaBeracha Regular price$12.50
Siddur Es Ratzon: Leather Zipper Triangles - Rose
Siddur Od Yosef Chai Hashalem - Sepharadi
Siddur Es Ratzon: Leather Zipper Triangles - Silver
Siddur Es Ratzon: Leather Zipper Triangles - Turquoise
Siddur Eis Ratzon - Faux Leather
Siddur Es Ratzon: Sm Envelope Magnet Metallic - Pink
Siddur & Tehillim Eis Ratzon - Faux Leather
Eis Ratzon Siddur - Imitation Leather
The Orot Sephardic Shabbat Siddur - Hebrew English: Sepharadi - Hardcover
Siddur Avodat Hashem Hashalem - Sepharadi
The Orot Sephardic Weekday Siddur: Sepharadi - Hardcover
Siddur Kol Yaakov HaChodosh
Siddur Kol Yaakov HaChodosh Regular price$21.95
Kiddush Cup: Silver Plated - 2.7"
Kiddush Cup: Silver Plated Grape Design - 4 Oz
Hadlakas Neiros Prayer & Candlesticks: Crystal & Mirror Circle Back
Talking Siddur: Shema Koleinu Hebrew - Ashkenazi Accent
Shabbos Hadlakas Neiros Prayer: Glitter Frame Pomegranite Design
Hadlakas Neiros: Glitter Mirror Rainbow Shaped Jerusalem Design
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Elongated with Swarovski Crystals - Brown
Shabbos Hadlakas Neiros Prayer: Frame Jerusalem & Hexagon Design
Hadlakas Neiros: Crushed Glass & Silver Plated
Shabbos Hadlakas Neiros Prayer: Mini Clock With Crystal & Silver Plaque
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Elongated - White
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Faux Leather - Purple
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Square With Swarovski Crystals - Grey
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Faux Leather - White
Na Nach Frik Yarmulka - Dark Blue Yellow
Shabbos Candle Lighting: Elongated with Swarovski Crystals - White

Start with tefillin. This is the single biggest decision — and the single most meaningful piece he'll own. Most bar mitzvah boys start with Peshutim Mehudarim or Dakkos; many upgrade to Gassos later. Gassos is the lifetime investment — thicker batim, higher-grade parshiyos, a pair he'll wear for 60+ years. Factor in cost, longevity, and your rav's advice.

Tallis katan (tzitzis worn under the shirt) — order two or three pairs. Boys wear them daily and they do wear out. Pick the beged material based on climate: wool for cooler, cotton or mesh for warmer.

Tallis gadol (the large tallis for shacharis) — Chasidic boys typically start wearing from bar mitzvah; in many Ashkenazic communities, the tallis gadol begins at marriage. Check your minhag. If yes, pick a wool tallis sized for his height.

Siddur — a good hardcover siddur he'll use every day. Many families gift a beautifully bound siddur with his name embossed. ArtScroll Ashkenaz, Sephardic, or Nusach Ari all available.

Yarmulke: get 5-10. They get lost. Velvet, suede, or knit depending on your minhag and his style.

The small pieces: a quality pen (for speeches and thank-you notes), a kippah clip, a tefillin mirror, a siddur cover. Optional but appreciated.

Check the Bar Mitzvah Starter Set bundle at the top of this page — we've pre-built combinations at good price points. Or call 732-444-3111 and we'll help custom-pick.

What's the minimum I need for a bar mitzvah boy?

Tefillin, tallis katan (2-3 pairs), a siddur, and kippot. Everything else is a luxury. Total minimum: $800-$1500 depending on tefillin grade.

Should he get Gassos tefillin or start with Peshutim?

Both are fully kosher. Gassos is the lifetime investment — more expensive but lasts 60+ years. Peshutim or Dakkos are good starter pairs. Many families upgrade after the boy is 25-30. Ask your rav.

When should I order?

At least 3 months before the bar mitzvah. Tefillin can take 4-6 weeks for higher grades. If you need rush delivery, call us first — we may have in-stock options.

Do you offer a complete bar mitzvah package?

Yes — our Bar Mitzvah Starter Set bundles tefillin + tallis + siddur + yarmulke + pen at $300+ off list. See the bundle options on this page or call for a custom set.

Can you arrange engraving for his name?

Yes — on tefillin bags, siddur covers, pens, and silver yad covers. Allow 5-10 business days for engraving.

What's a good speech pen?

A Parker or Cross fountain/roller pen ($50–$200) is traditional — he can keep it for life. For a very nice option, we carry Caran d'Ache and Mont Blanc pens too. We can engrave with his name or date.