A proper havdalah set has three pieces: a becher for the wine, a besamim box for the spices, and a holder for the braided candle. We carry matched sets in sterling, silverplate, olivewood, and modern acrylic from Hazorfim, Hadad, Yair Emanuel, and other leading makers — plus individual besamim boxes in tower, pomegranate, and filigree designs. For gifts, our boxed sets come pre-presented and can be engraved.

What goes in a besamim box?

The classic spice is cloves (besamim of cloves are fragrant, widely available, and storage-stable), but cinnamon bark, bay leaves, and dried lavender are also used. The minhag varies by family; the halachic requirement is simply a bracha-worthy scent. Replace spices every few weeks so the fragrance stays fresh.

Does the havdalah candle need to be braided?

A havdalah candle should be a single flame with multiple wicks — the braided design merges several wicks into one torch. A plain single-wick candle is b'dieved acceptable but most are makpid on the braided candle. We sell 6", 9", and 18" braided candles in wax, beeswax, and parafin.

Can I buy pieces separately?

Yes — every component in our sets can be purchased individually. If you have a family becher and just need the besamim and candle holder, or if you're replacing a lost piece, filter the collection by "individual pieces."

Is a matching set halachically required?

No — halacha only requires wine, a scent, and a flame. Matching sets are for aesthetics and for keeping the three mitzvah objects together. If you have a sterling becher already, a simple olivewood besamim box and any candle holder will fulfill the mitzvah perfectly.